Let’s just admit everyone can be a little bit insecure at one point or another in their lives; it happens even to the most confident of individuals. For example, there comes a time when the most good-looking of us women can feel threatened when seeing all the youthful-like celebrities who never seem to be ageing.
However, if there’s a way to bring confidence back, it’s got to be in the bedroom. Put on some lingerie to your taste, surprise your partner, and you start feeling like the goddess you are. Other than lingerie, of course, there’s another secret and sexy weapon any woman, single or not, should have at home: that special toy for sex.
Truth is, you start feeling great in your own skin when you aren’t afraid of getting adventurous in the bedroom, not letting some stretch marks or a bit of belly hold you back from having the quality sex life you want to have.
At least, it’s been the case with me, and having the sex toy I can explore my playful side with has allowed me to get to know more of myself, my body, what works for me and what doesn’t. You don’t have to be single to be able to have fun with toys; even women in relationships can still have some quality time on their own to reach the big O.
When you’re confident, and you know the moves you find pleasurable thanks to exploring with your toy for sex, you can share that with your partner and never be afraid of bedroom boredom ever creeping in on your relationship. Some like it playful, others like it kinky, which is why there’s the kind of toy ideal for everyone’s taste.
Spending me-time in the company of my toys has made it possible for me to have the courage to say out loud the fantasies I’ve wanted to play out with my significant other, without the fear I’d sound silly or he’d judge me, and it worked the same both ways. We like to spice things up from time to time purchasing a new toy or two, all different from each other, so we get to see what best satisfies our needs.
While I can’t say we’ve enjoyed every single toy we’ve tried, we’ve had a good laugh with most of them, and in the end, that’s what it’s all about. If you’re looking for the one advice on confidence and love life, I’d say get yourself a sex toy and let the adventures begin!